Robert Marshall had nine sexual abusers over his lifetime. For years, he blamed himself and remained silent. Now he’s speaking out and encouraging other survivors to come forward – because he’s not alone.
1 in 6 men has been sexually assaulted! Why don’t we hear about it?
Many cases of sexual assault against boys and men go unreported. White supremacy has long stereotyped Black men as hypersexual, so speaking out about sexual assault is usually met with skepticism or homophobia and keeps many from revealing their abuse.
In 2018, when actor Terry Crews shared his experience of being sexually assaulted, he was mocked and blamed for his abuse.
Robin D. Stone, journalist and author of “No Secrets, No Lies,” says that Black folks’ distrust of American institutions like the police, homophobia, and strong beliefs about concealing “family business” all lead to a lack of reporting among Black men.
These survivors are members of our communities. The trauma they’ve experienced affects all of their relationships, especially if they haven’t reported their assaults or received professional support to aid in their healing.
We must better understand the truth about sexual assault and work to destigmatize survivorship amongst men.
Black men deserve the space and support to speak their truths and heal, and it’s in the best interest of our entire community that we do so – it will lead to healthier relationships for everyone!